FAMILY PILLAR

The reason why a lady is called someone's wife is not because of the marriage certificates given during wedding , neither is it because of the dowry prices paid nor the number of family members she has met on her spouse's side but because she has is simply acted like one. The reason why  a lady is boldly given the title mother or mum is not because she has carried the child in her womb for nine months or because she simply gave birth to it but its because she has really acted like one.

Acting like a wife means doing the chores you are supposed to do as per the instructions and advices given to you by your elders during the rituals of marriage where the lady is given advices on how she is supposedly supposed to treat her husband to be and her incoming children.Respect to your husband is the greatest gift that a lady can offer to her husband since it brings forth love, happiness and peace in the family.Irrigardless of her earning more than her husband respect should never be withdrawn and she should never look down on her husband and neglect her duties to her children. A lady is supposed to bring the later in the family so as the family can stay intact if not forever then for a long time and after that then the lady can boldly and gladly be given the title wife as well mother if she has any children who will gladly respect her as well as love and appreciate her existence in their lives since respect is earned but not demanded.