DARING THE WORLD

The causative reason for many family breakups is lack of experience about life and what it holds.One gains knowledge by interacting with different people from different parts of the world who have different experiences and knowledge about life.As the saying goes"kuishi kwingi kuona mengi" but at the same time you can live long but living only in one area and associating with the same people who still lack knowledge beyond what they hear and see will have no impact even if you live there for a hundred years your knowledge about life will be lesser compared to that other person who has travelled around the world.

It might not be a wonder to find a woman going through peer pressure in her early 40s just because she did not enjoy her youth because she was "holy Mary mother of Jesus" in her early 20s and teenage which we would call her youthful stages.If that woman had had opportunities to associate with different people around the world then she would have had the knowledge in her 40s about how peer pressure occurs and all it is about meaning she shouldn't have just stayed in doors while all her friends were out there daring the world and gaining more knowledge about life.

All this can be blamed to the over protective parents because they tend to put too much pressure on their children and coming up with strict rules which eventually become a hereditary act.As a parent you can protect your child from all sorts of things but never forget that that child will forever not be under your care meaning once she has slipped into other hands and acquires the freedom you denied her;she will receive everything she is offered in the world greedily due to over excitement and lack of knowledge about what is good and what is bad,whom to trust and whom to distrust.

It might seem so great that you have brought up your daughter and she has eventually found a suiter who wants to marry her and let's say that she is still tight.It's going to be great happiness to the man for having a pure lady by his side and the parents will be proud to have brought up a decent,innocent ,young lady but that happiness will be short-lived because her innocence and purity is not optional it's because she has been a victim of circumstance and that circumstance is strict hereditary rules and taboos.

That lady knows nothing about men and have little knowledge about how life out there is because all she knew is;home,school, church and if that's the cycle of her life when she was in her parents custody,getting married will give her more freedom to meet with different people from all walks of life and regardless to the fact that she is mature in everyone's eyes and because of her age,she is still a toddler in the head rather her brains are still pre-mature since it will be very easy for her to get carried away by people with weird ideas and whose brains outsmarts hers.
She might not overreact during the first years of marriage but trust you me that a time will come when you will wonder whether you married the right person or she was exchanged from the previous one you knew.Gaining knowledge changes everything.

For Instance,Kenyans wouldn't have fought for their Independence were it not for the knowledge they obtained from the Independent countries and travelling to various countries and borrowing ideas on how to gain their Independence. Same applies to marriages,if the woman doesn't have knowledge at the time of marriage please don't count yourself lucky to have won a jackpot or lottery because when the deal is too good think twice and don't count your chicks before they are hatched because you might start celebrating and bragging of how fresh the fruit is and how sweet the juice is but in the end you will realize that he who laughs last laughs the best and knowledge is power.Don't be surprised after 10years of a happy marriage you realize that what you owned is now owned by many and you can really do nothing about it.

It's advisable to be daring the world and get different tastes of different foods with different spices so that even when you decide to settle on one meal and see others eating attractive meals you won't salivate because you have experienced the meal and know all the ingredients in it and regardless to the person who will try to entice you,she won't succeed because knowledge is power and experience is the best teacher.But better still common sense should be part of you when daring the world because too much cooks spoil the broth so be wise.Put God first and repent because mistakes and sins will be part of your daily life

MOTHER NATURE

A saying goes that mother nature is very unforgiving and what goes around comes back around and be careful it may be carrying 7more demons along.It's only essentially right to do to others what you would want them to do to you.Ujana ni moshi na huja kwa muda mfupi tu kabla ya moto kuchipuka.
When a lady is young and energetic she can do soo many things with that energy which is at most textuarized by her beauty.The greatest mistake a lady can do at her youthful stage is to endulge in issues that will make her wither.These things could be things that she will eventually come to regret in her future life because what goes around comes back around.
Snatching someone else's husband is a go around thing that no matter how hard you'll try to avoid the misfortunes that comes forth with it,you'll never evade them since mother nature is very unforgiving.Your husband will also one day be snatched from you and the pain you made another woman go through will eternally live with you and haunt you to your grave and if it won't catch up with you then your children will be responsible for your mistakes and in order to avoid the go around things just avoid them when you still have time,energy, and workable brains to come up with something else to brighten your future and that of your children.

SYMPATHY AND EMPATHY

Empathy is a situation where one feels mercy for someone  in need and offers help to that person.This kind of help could be financial,spiritual or just ideologically.These kind of people are rare since most of what people possess is sympathy where they feel merciful rather sorry for the person but don't offer any kind of help.
For instance during natural calamities such as drought,floods or earthquake in various countries,many people's lives get disrupted because of the calamities.They face problems such as;hunger,lack of settlement lands,insecurity as well as health issues not forgetting they go short of the basic needs which are food;shelter and clothing.During these times,empathetic people come up with problem solving strategies such as,offer those people basic needs which generally is physical help and provide them with safe places to settle in whereas the sympathetic people just feel pity for the people and do nothing to help them.
It's not like the sympathetic people are at fault but then they at least should try to provide if not material support then spiritual support would do more good than just hoping for a better tomorrow for them.But then at no particular time should we criticize the sympathetic people because maybe they provide spiritual support but owe unto we who depend and recognize only those who provide material support.It's not like everyone is blessed to a point of helping others but all we are trying to put into account and the main point we are trying to drive home is that if you cannot provide material support then spiritual support would do no harm because God cannot fail to give you both.

ASK THE UNDERGARMENTS...

 A lady's body is a very delicate thing and it's not just any part of the body but her private parts If you really want to confirm this,ask her undergarments since they can be the only ones to testify what they see and receive within 24hours or less.
It's not like it's a lady's wish to have genital problems it's just that those parts are too sensitive to any bacteria that doesn't favour them.The reasons for some kind of these genital problems include;going to dirty washrooms and splashing oneself with that dirt;not drying oneself properly after taking a shower;wearing wet undergarments;wiping oneself with dirty,dusty or contaminated towel or tissue or even having intercourse with an infected person and also cleaning oneself with soaps a and many more others that's why that part is so delicate.
At times,men tend to blame a lady if she is having such kind of a problem but the reality is most of these ladies don't even know where some of these illnesses come from.They can contract it without their knowledge and only notice it after some few days.
Signs of a lady having such kind of infections include;producing a smelly odour from her private parts,urinating reddish urine,producing yellowish fluid that stinks,as well as having menses that are extremely painful than normal around their lower abdomen or even feeling pain during intercourse.
Some of these illnesses include;UTI which is Urinary Track Infection,STD which include Gorrnorrea,Syphilis,Hepatitis B and many others.
To avoid these illnesses a lady is supposed to be hygienic by going to clean latrines,using clean towel to dry oneself after a shower,using tissues that are disinfected or that are not dusty and also abstinence or using protection during intercourse and wearing clean and dry undergarments.

LIFE IS A JOURNEY

Daniel Toroitich Arap moi who was the second president in the Republic of Kenya has lived a life that most politicians would admire especially being in the presidential position because it comes forth with many great advantages and favours.

Despite the many things people knew about him,his family issues were anonymous to many especially his wife since she rarely appeared in public forums due to unknown reasons.

The only information people knew about his family was that he had a wife and eight children which they came to realize it after him passing on.So from that,people should realize and know that it's right to put in public what will benefit you and your family members now and in future not only for your reputation's sake but also for all members in the family peace of mind.Life is a journey so treck it well and use the right path.

IT'S WITHIN MY REACH

Life has taught me that I'm my greatest friend bcoz I always disclose everything to myself en those things I can't share with anyone I share them with myself.Lyf has taught me that I'm my greatest confider en the friend I needed to share all my miseries with is right within me and I'm the only one who cannot feel jealous for my success en I'm the only one who can give myself sincere hope en advice for the future.
Lyf has also taught me that I'm still my greatest enemy since I'm the one who converses within myself en make decisions that deceive me en eventually hurt me.I'm my greatest enemy bcoz even after telling myself the truth about myself I go disclosing it to other people en gossip about myself to other people who are my enemies.I'm my greatest enemy bcoz even after knowing where I can succeed from,I still procrastinate it en depend on others to motivate me yet I'm my own motivator thus betray myself.
All I need is myself to survive. As long as my heart,head and brains are still functional I need no other person to motivate me or to share my miseries for comfort.I am my greatest comforter and my greatest motivator there can be bcoz I do it wholeheartedly en with no hidden hatred or jealousy within me.So I have the power to make myself powerful and successful bcoz evrythng is within me and I still have the power to destroy myself by telling others about myself bcoz when I hurt myself by gossiping myself then I'll make myself angry and hate that self that has the power over my life.So everything is just within me.