MONEY DOMINATES

There are many reasons why families have marital issues though some of these reasons are not at times stated out clearly and openly due to various reasons such as fear of embarrassment or rejection by friends.If some of these reasons were put out to light then after various discussions and thorough research the main cause of major marital issues is because of money.

Financial instability when it strikes a happy home, it ends up being an isolated place that one would never say peace was a dominant in the family. When the man is the bread winner in the family irrigardless of whether the wife is working or not then the family is at most at peace since he ensures that he provides everything needed as per his power and capabilities.

Its a different case when the woman in the house is working whereas the husband maybe lost his job since at most women get tired of catering for the family needs and will at most lay unnecessary issues and blame everything on her innocent husband whereas its wasn't his wish to be fired from work or his business to go bad.Women tend to make everyone at home unstable and worried of what might happen next since every day is a quarrelsome day.No matter what the husband tries to do keep the family intact as long as he don't have money then the wife will never give him peace,love and happiness that he deserves. The main value which is respect is eventually lost all because money dominates. 

FAMILY PILLAR

The reason why a lady is called someone's wife is not because of the marriage certificates given during wedding , neither is it because of the dowry prices paid nor the number of family members she has met on her spouse's side but because she has is simply acted like one. The reason why  a lady is boldly given the title mother or mum is not because she has carried the child in her womb for nine months or because she simply gave birth to it but its because she has really acted like one.

Acting like a wife means doing the chores you are supposed to do as per the instructions and advices given to you by your elders during the rituals of marriage where the lady is given advices on how she is supposedly supposed to treat her husband to be and her incoming children.Respect to your husband is the greatest gift that a lady can offer to her husband since it brings forth love, happiness and peace in the family.Irrigardless of her earning more than her husband respect should never be withdrawn and she should never look down on her husband and neglect her duties to her children. A lady is supposed to bring the later in the family so as the family can stay intact if not forever then for a long time and after that then the lady can boldly and gladly be given the title wife as well mother if she has any children who will gladly respect her as well as love and appreciate her existence in their lives since respect is earned but not demanded.